Go Shout it on a Mountain

As I mentioned previously, one of the most exciting things about this whole baby-having journey thus far has been getting to share the news with others.  Because I want to embarrass people forever immortalize these moments - I am devoting an entire post to this topic.  As an added bonus one day down the road our child can use this post for bragging rights  and/or a bargaining chip with the important people in his/her life.  Without further ado, let's do this.

RYAN (Baby Daddy)
As you may remember from the FAQ post, I found out I was pregnant on July 4th.  I woke up early and given that I was expected to be a Beer Pong champion later that day, I decided that taking a test might be in my best interest.  I 100% did not expect the test to be positive because it was still a little bit early.  I was so convinced it would not be positive that I managed to rack up about 5 wins in Flood-It while waiting and almost forgot to go back and check.  When I did and saw a very clear positive I was so excited I didn't know what to do with myself.  Screaming with joy seemed like the most preferable option but given the sleeping beast and husband 10 feet away I refrained.  Instead I just took another test.  Which was also positive.

Because July 4th is so close to July 9th, I thought it would be fun to keep it a secret a few days and surprise Ryan on our anniversary.  I've waited 5 days to do plenty of things in the past (read: cleaning, studying, the list goes on and on) and am a pretty superb secret-keeper.  Naturally I thought this would be no sweat.  I was sooooo wrong.  Hardest. Secret. Ever.  I will not go into lengthy detail here but there was lying about symptoms and a near miss that involved band-aids.  Just trust me that there should be some type of award for that type of valor.

Ryan had to work the weekend before our anniversary so we planned to celebrate on the actual date- a Monday.  I'd wrapped 2 presents for Ryan for our anniversary - 1 real one (Dre Beats - my husband is so hip) and a paint brush.  The paint brush is a joke because the one room in our house we've not painted since moving in is the one that will be the nursery.  Anyone who recalls the painting snafus encountered in this house - read here, and here- knows that painting is a divisive issue between the Candice Olsen in me and the Ebeneezer Scrooge in my husband.  I told Ryan he had to open one present before dinner.  I obviously made sure it was the paintbrush.  He, of course, got it right away and was the most excited I've ever seen him (even when A&M beat UT in Fran's last year).  We spent the remainder of the evening discussing why dragons aren't suitable nursery decor, why we couldn't tell everyone we know RIGHT THEN and dining on some fab grub at Perry's.  I think its safe to say that our first anniversary is one neither of us will ever forget.

 This makes me hungry.

Eating for 2 = 2 desserts in one evening.

MY MOM & DAD

We had grand plans of doing a big reveal with the whole immediate fam in Conroe the weekend of August 4th.  However, 2 weeks before Ryan & I found ourselves with a weekend of free time on our hands on account of the fact that morning sickness and home projects don't mix.  We thus decided to pay my parents a visit.  As pointed out above, I'd kept enough secrets for the remainder of my life, so we knew there was no way we'd be able to make it through the weekend without spilling the beans.

When we were in Italy in April we ordered a bottle of wine and some olive oil for my parents as a thank you for watching our dear Lola Bean.  It took months and months to come.  So we decided that giving them these belated thank you tokens would be a good mask for telling them.  I wrote them a thank you  card and told them what great parents they were for agreeing to baby sit the Lolers... and said that some might even deem them "GRAND" parents.  I then went on to say that in March they could make that their official title.  They were, of course, overjoyed.  

A slight side story that I would be remiss (and in big trouble from my Dad) for not sharing relates to a toilet.  Toilets and pregnancy reveals don't go hand in hand for your family?  How boring.  The Thursday evening before we were slated to head to the lake, my Mom had a slumber party at our house with Ryan & I.  She was working at the Katy location the following day and decided that eliminating her hour commute sounded like a great idea.  Plus lets be honest- Ryan & I throw a mean slumber party.  That evening my Dad took advantage of his alone time at their house by deciding to replace a cracked toilet seat.  He sent my Mom a photo with the caption "planning for the future" of the replacement toilet seat on her phone.  Said new toilet seat was clearly made for potty training (see photo below).  My dear mother flew off the handle.  She stated multiple times how unnecessary and silly of a purchase it was.  Ryan & I, meanwhile, sat across our living room from her trying our very best not to laugh knowing what we were about to tell them the next day.  So, of course, once we broke the news to them my Dad dubbed himself a genius.

 The makings of a Genius.  P.S. Probably the first time a picture of a toilet has ever been included in a baby reveal post- history making!

RYAN'S MOM, DAD, TIFFANY & KYLIE

The weekend of August 4th Ryan & I made plans to swing by his parents' house for dinner on our way home from Conroe.  A few weeks earlier I ordered a little t-shirt for Kylie that said "Big cousin."  The plan was to wrap it up like a gift for her and have her open it in front of everyone.  As if she were in on it herself, when we brought the tissue paper-infused bag out she said "AWWWW" and walked straight to it.  Obviously no one else would be bringing gifts for anyone else!  :c)  Of course, she didn't quite understand the significance of the shirt but everyone else  put it together fairly quickly.  After the shock wore off, I think it's safe to say that everyone was excited.

 Having loved spending time with my cousins who were close in age- I'm so excited that our little one will be able to share that same experience.

JULIE
It's hard to say who we were most excited to share the news with, but I can say for certain that Julie had to be near the top of the list.  Julie is one of the few people who has been vocal about her preparedness to showcase her aunt skills.  Actually in early June she asked me if I'd tell her if I was anywhere near trying and I flat out told her no.  I think I may have hurt her feelings a little bit, so I knew that our way of telling her had to be special.  

I decided to send flowers to her office and included the following well-written poem:  "Roses are red, this vase is blue, I'm already an Aunt and in March you will be too."  (Who says rappers are the only ones that can rhyme these days?!)

Please note that the vase in this photo is most certainly blue.  The vase Julie actually received was pink.  So she thought I was just trying really hard to make a rhyme work.

See?  Not enough good surprises left in life.  :c)

JEN

On August 25th, Jen, Brendan, Julie, David, Ryan & I were headed to Austin for a wedding.  Beforehand Jen assigned Julie & I the task of creating an itinerary since we'd be on our own stomping grounds.  We were slacking on the job and Jen wrote a reminder on my Facebook wall to get it together.  It was Julie's idea to send the following:

Which one of these is not like the others?

Pardon the terrible picture I took on my phone of my computer.  The point is that she was excited.

MELANIE

When Melanie was in town with Jonathan in July, she and I went to get our nails did.  She had touted this place as somewhere you could get wine and champagne while getting pampered.  I'm a terrible liar and I knew it was my only chance to get to tell her in person so I blurted it out in the car pulling into the nail place's parking  lot.  She immediately teared up and kept telling me how pumped she was.  It was so neat to get to tell her in person and so humbling to know how much  this child is already loved.  Sorry you didn't get a more fun, well-planned way Mel!  I also, unfortunately, don't have any fun pictures from this reveal.  Just imagine Melanie and I stopped in a parking lot and me stumbling badly through words.  Fun visual, right?

We took a little time out from telling people for a few weeks between Jen & everyone else.  I was really worried about making it to the pivotal 12 week mark and decided to go one step further and wait until 13 weeks before allowing myself to tell anyone else.  That happened to fall on Labor Day weekend.  So Ryan & I spent the weekend sending out texts and telling people.  It was so much fun reading everyone's responses.

MELISSA & COURTNEY
I made myself a promise that we wouldn't tell anyone until Monday of Labor Day weekend.  Much  like Christmas though, I convinced myself telling a COUPLE of people on Friday couldn't hurt, right?  I texted Melissa & Courtney that morning.  It was a hilarious group text, of course.

Note to the audience: having 2 sonogram photos on one sheet of paper can confuse others.  Consider cropping before general release.

Love my favorite weeper.

MY INDIANA FAMILY

Since my Grandpa happened to fly into town the Wednesday before Labor Day, we got to see him on Friday evening.  We told him over dinner in Conroe.  Great Grandbaby #5 received a very warm welcome from him, as expected.

Monday morning of Labor Day weekend, I sent a mass text to my whole Indiana family.  I'd been dying to do so for quite a few weeks because one of my cousins is due January 12th with a sweet baby girl.  Every time I texted to see how she was doing, I so badly wanted to tell her I was in the same boat.  I'm super pumped to know that our kiddos will be close in age!

It was too hard to get everyone's responses in one screenshot- don't worry, Miranda also responded.  :c)

Caddy, this is an important question!  Give it some thought!  Nanny?  ;c)

RYAN'S MISSOURI FAMILY

Ryan's Dad has 2 sisters, Lori (plus her hubby Stan, and their kiddos - Taylor and Connor) & Sandy (plus her hubby Kevin, and their kiddos - Bryce and Jace), who live in Missouri.  They haven't had much air time here on the blog, but that will change soon as we are going to visit them later this week.  Anywho- since it was Ryan's family, he was the one who was in charge of the texting.  I think you'll notice a distinct difference in his style and my own.

I am fairly certain she wasn't asking Ryan how he was feeling.

Yup, that's the man I married.

RYAN'S HOUSTON FAM

Ryan's Mom's side of the family lives here in town.  We broke the news to his Aunt, Uncle & cousin via text.  Unfortunately I can't seem to find any screenshots from that convo in my phone, but I promise they were excited.  :c)  

Ryan also broke the news to his Grandpa himself over the phone while I listened.  The convo went, and I quote, as follows:  " Grandpa, Amy & I have some news to share.  Amy's pregnant.  The problem is I'm not sure if it's mine."  Luckily after 29 years of Ryan's shenanigans, Grandpa ignored him and instead just congratulated us.  Once again - no pics.  Sorry Charlie!

 

DENA, SHAWNA & JENN

Jen was busy galavanting across Europe when the official 13 week mark hit and was bummed she might miss getting to see reactions.  To circumvent this, she was kind enough to arrange a brunch with Julie, Jenn (who's expecting twins the day after me!!!), Shawna, Dena & I the weekend after Labor Day.  The occasion doubled as a mini Brunch Season kick off.  So to break the news I toasted to, "1 more brunch season, 2 more months without significant others and 3 babies in bellies."  Jen videoed this but due to our lack of technological prowess, we have yet to figure out how to get that bad boy from her phone to my inbox.  If we ever get that working, I'll post it here.  In the meantime you'll have to settle for the picture below.

 Shawna, Jenn, Noah, Julie, Jen, Me & Dena - Brunch Season fo LIFE.

And - ta-da!  That, my friends, is how people found out about Baby Martin.  If I left how I told you out of here, it in no means diminishes the importance of us telling you or how excited we are to share the news with you.  It simply means my hands started hurting from taking screenshots from my phone.  Or it means that Ryan told you and he didn't sufficiently relay your reaction to me for documentation.  Feel free to submit your own responses via commentary below for posterity purposes.  From the very bottom of our hearts, THANK YOU, for your joyous reactions.  They say it takes a village to raise a child (lets be honest- maybe 2 for a Martin), and it's overwhelmingly evident that this child has one heck of a village behind him/her.  Your continued support and well wishes for a safe, healthy pregnancy mean the world to us.

Baby FAQs

It turns out that when you announce a pregnancy, people have a lot of questions.  To try to kill many birds with one stone, I'll get all IT on you and post some of the most common questions I've received (or that I know you're thinking) along with my highly scientific answers.


Q:  When are you due?
A:  March 10th currently.  It was originally March 15th but at our first appointment it got moved up 5 days. 

Q:  When did you find out?!
A:  I found out the morning of July 4th despite telling myself I wouldn't take a test until July 6th.  WHOOPSIES!  Patience may be a virtue, but apparently it isn't one of mine.

Q:  How did you tell Ryan?
A:  I didn't tell Ryan for a few days after I found out.  I'll explain more later.  I want to devote an entire post to how I told people because it's been such a fun part of this process.

Q:  So... like a few weeks ago I asked you when you were going to have kids... you looked at me like I was crazy.  Then you said, "I already have one.  He's 29 and his name is Ryan."  Was this on purpose?  Why did you lie to me?
A:  Yes, this was absolutely planned.  I didn't tell you because as my wise aunt once said - "there aren't enough good surprises left in life."  Besides, if I had told you, you would have likely thought I was pregnant 10 times by now when really I may have just overindulged in my beloved chinese cuisine. 

Q:  You like your adult beverages.  How have you been hiding it?!
A:  Okay, so that's been hard.  The day I first found out we went over to play beerpong at Shawna & Austin's.  I poured A LOT of beer into their pool.  Also down their sink in the bathroom.  Sorry Shaustin - I owe you an extra large cannister of shock for the pool.  Since then I've mainly avoided any social setting at someone's house and ordered cranberry sprites in all bar settings.  Please note if you're trying this trick you should remind them to put it in a regular cocktail glass.  Otherwise they give it to you in a soda glass and people think you're an alchie.

Q:  Are you going to find out the gender?
A:  For sure.  Please see my lack of patience commentary in Question 1.  On my birthday, October 4th, in fact.

Q:  Do you have names?
A:  Yes.  We have had a girl name since long before we were even engaged.  We've had a boy name for probably 6 or 8 months.  However, we don't plan to share them because somehow when you share a name people think that's an open invitation for their opinion on it.  We love our names and don't want to have to get into any disputes about them.  If you are going to hate the name, I'd prefer to make it more challenging for you by attaching it to a cute baby first.

Q:  What are you going to do if the baby inherits Ryan's smart mouth?
A:  Get my own apartment.  Or maybe earmuffs.

Q:  What did you have to give up that you miss the most?
A:  Anyone who knows me well is likely expecting me to say coffee right now.  Shockingly, I miss sushi a lot more.  We'll revisit this topic again when the Starbucks Christmas flavors come out though.

Q:  Have you had any weird cravings?
A:  My Mom's meatloaf.  For those of you familiar with my eatings habits, you will recognize this to be as odd for me as I did.  I am not a ground beef fan and I used to groan when my Mom would tell me this was what was for dinner.  When I told Ryan about this craving he informed me that it was all the paternity test he would ever need.  I also have a very unnatural craving at nearly any time of the day for either: 1) chicken tenders with creamy gravy OR 2) Tostito's Black Bean & Garlic chips (if you have not had these, go out and procure some... trust me, you'll voluntarily want to give me your first born for this nugget of wisdom).

Q:  What are you most nervous about?
A:  Of course, first and foremost, I want this baby to be happy and healthy.  I think that's probably anyone's first anxiety point.  Beyond that, I worry that this child, like it's father and paternal grandfather, will weigh in the 10-11 lb range and be about 23 inches long.  A close second is that Ryan really will paint a mural of Lola's face in the nursery while I'm at work one day as he's been threatening to do.

Q:  What do you call the baby?
A:  I call the baby jellybean and Ryan usually refers to him/her as uterobaby.  Maybe he thinks I'm giving birth to a robot.

Q:  Is this why you suddenly dropped off the face of the earth and didn't want to do anything fun I planned?
A:  Yes.  If you planned something that wasn't on my couch within a 2 second dash to a restroom, it hasn't been up my alley for a few weeks.  I feel better now though- let's do stuff.  :c)

Q:  What can you already tell about this child?
A:  That this bean has his/her mothers sentimental attachment to dates combined with his/her father's sense of humor.  How do I know this?  I found out I was pregnant on Independence Day, the first day of the second trimester was Labor Day, we find out the gender on my birthday and last, but not least, when I googled March 10th after our due date was changed (see: mother's sentimental attachment to dates) the second hit was this: March 10th.

I think those are the bulk of the questions I have fielded recently.  :c)  Above all, we are just incredibly humbled by how lucky we feel.  We appreciate all of your kind words, sweet thoughts and heartfelt prayers.  Thank you, thank you, thank you!  Stay tuned for the how did you tell _____ post.

March Madness

I know what you're thinking - aren't we jumping a bit ahead of ourselves here?  Football season just started.  While football season is a rough one for hubs & I historically, and I am bred from two hoosiers (which makes basketball my favorite naturally), the title of this post has nothing to do with sports. 

So why are we talking about March?  Well my friends it's because this March Ryan & I will be trading in the traditional elements of the season (brackets, bets and marathons on the couch with ESPN on) for the madness of diaper changing, flip-flopped sleep schedules and rock, paper scissoring to see who's turn it is the check on the baby.  That is correct- I said baby.  OUR baby, no less.  For those of you who are as slow on the uptake as I am- that does in fact mean that I AM PREGNANT.

We are both so incredibly excited and feel beyond blessed to be granted this tiny miracle.  Even if the road is paved with bags of wheat thins on my person at all times, more water than I ever dreamed of consuming and a messy house due to a lack of energy - we could not be more thankful to be on it.   

A huge thank you for the outpouring of love, support and well wishes we have received.  If the reaction to the news is any indication, we are going to have one very, very spoiled little nugget on our hands.  Another huge thank you to my husband.  Every day I feel lucky to be spending life with a man I adore so much and laugh so hard with.  That feeling has been amplified more than I ever imagined possible by getting to see the enormous amount of love he already has for this child.  He really is the best.

I have a couple of other posts in the works with more fun details, but for the time being I just couldn't keep it bottled inside any longer.  Bring it on second trimester!